I DON'T WANT ANYBODY TO HURT ME
When we give of ourselves to the point where we lose who we are, we then think we are the victims of someone's need for control. We begin to act in a way that makes us vulnerable and confused about how we have even gotten into this mess in the first place. We are more than our set circumstances. To bring clarity to the matter (because we are so concerned about getting hurt), our focus alone becomes a self fulling prophecy. When in fact, we are the ones creating pain for ourselves and then seeing other's people as the reason for it all.