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I DON'T WANT ANYBODY TO HURT ME

When we give of ourselves to the point where we lose who we are, we then think we are the victims of someone's need for control. We begin to act in a way that makes us vulnerable and confused about how we have even gotten into this mess in the first place. We are more than our set circumstances. To bring clarity to the matter (because we are so concerned about getting hurt), our focus alone becomes a self fulling prophecy. When in fact, we are the ones creating pain for ourselves and then seeing other's people as the reason for it all.

When we give of ourselves to the point where we lose who we are, we then think we are the victims of someone's need for control. We begin to act in a way that makes us vulnerable and confused about how we have even gotten into this mess in the first place. We are more than our set circumstances. To bring clarity to the matter (because we are so concerned about getting hurt), our focus alone becomes a self fulling prophecy. When in fact, we are the ones creating pain for ourselves and then seeing other's people as the reason for it all.

We may not want others to hurt us. However, if I told you that people treat us according to our personal self-love or lack of it, the power of our personal choice lies somewhere between our truth and our illusion. What is not seen is our ability to take active responsibility for our own happiness. When we are being affected by others, it is because we are asking them to push our buttons so we are aware of our beliefs and transmute them, not act on them and blame others.

Thoughts become disqualified by lack of truth. We stay that way for the need to be right and prideful on the matter at heart. We have a choice in a path that is in self-love and self respect. Therefore, we must take our power into awareness, that we are creating the discord with ourselves and other people are playing it out on the stage of life. Honoring ourselves, for only we can change our mind and change our life. It's plain and simple.